Hello, world!
Let’s cut through all the bull and just answer the questions that I know have burned your subconscious each night since my last post— where on earth has Mare been, and has she even been reading?
The answer to the first is, yes, I’m alive! I just wrapped up my second semester of grad school. In the midst of all that, the new job has been sucking up a lot of time that I previously used to write my insightful book reviews — but then, does anyone even read this thing or care that I’ve been gone? It’s hard to keep up with blogging when you feel like no one cares about what you have to say, or about what you’re reading. Maybe if I did a Fifty Shades of Grey post, I’d get comments out the wazoo. And maybe I’ll finally break down and read Twilight, and compose loving odes to poor characterization, plots, themes and dialogue. Speaking of which, has anyone gone to see Titanic in 3D? No? Oh, me neither.
As for the second question, of course I’ve been reading! It’s all this chick does, besides all that office grunt crap. That, and plan as many vacations as I can into one summer. (It’s a challenge, but I think I’ll manage it.) I’m almost done Alice Munro’s Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage — and it’s phenomenal, really tight storytelling.
VIDEO: Alice Munro discusses age, “The Little Mermaid,” and Ireland
She has this ability to weave different plot lines together within a small space, while still creating a dramatic impact for the reader at the end. In this collection, she captures women in various stages of life and speaks to what is often dismissed as mundane or normal—yet, each portrait is so intense and so vivid. So far, I’ve found that the title story — “Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marrige” — to be the most poignant; this 2001 review from the New York Times seems to disagree:
“In the title story, which exchanges her usual naturalistic approach for a heightened, Carson McCullers-like tack, a cruel practical joke played on a lonely spinster by two teenage girls — they send her a series of phony love letters — unexpectedly results in her finding happiness and fulfillment.”
The reviewer, I believe, missed the point: that is, the story is not just about Johanna, it’s about the two teenage girls as well. The final line of this story just blew me away — I can’t get it out of my head.
I’ve also joined a book club that one of my co-workers has put together. We’re working on our first book right now, and we’re going to meet up and discuss it next week. I like that the first suggestion was a book that I wouldn’t normally choose for myself. It was in the Self-Help section of Barnes & Noble (I know, I know — shop indie; I will, I will, I promise). I’m not one who seeks out self-validation from these kinds of “memoir” or “step-by-step” books, but The Happiness Project has surprised me thus far. It’s engaging, interesting, and the author, Gretchen Rubin, is remarkably honest about her shortcomings, despite how minor they appear compared to say, the mass murder of civilians in Syria. I like that she’s so organized about her resolutions, and how she holds herself accountable with astounding task management skills.
I bought The Search, Chasing Fire and The Witness, which are the last three novels released by Nora Roberts. I know this lady doesn’t get a lot of love from the book review world, or even the general public unless you’re a middle-aged matron. (I used to read Nora in high school, and the overall comment I got from my classmates was, “Oh yeah, my mom reads her.” D’oh.) Still, you have to admire this woman: she has written 200 books—many of which have ended up as NYT bestsellers—, owns her own bookstore, co-owns a bed-and-breakfast in her home state of Maryland—is there anything she doesn’t do? I’m such a fangirl.
VIDEO (JUST FOR FUN): I’ve always wanted to use that spell!
Finally, I just got back from a lovely long weekend at a cabin in upstate New York, in a little hamlet in the Adirondacks called Lake Vanare (near Lake George). We stayed at a place called Hide-A-Way Waterfront Cottages, which I found out about through LivingSocial. Brian and I were so, so pleased with everything – cozy, quiet, peaceful, relaxing. It was chilly at night, for the most part, even though we didn’t have a gloriously sized supermoon to gaze at on Saturday night. We also hiked up Prospect Mountain, a misleadingly titled “moderate” hike, but the view at the summit was worth it!
Until next time, everyone!







